We don't live in isolation. We are constantly in a situation where we need to interact with someone else. We depend on others for cooperation, for information, for support or just for connection.
How we communicate and how articulate we are can mean the difference between making progress and encountering resistance.
Conversations can either be a dreaded event or a fun time to look forward to. The art of Communication and Conversations is big business. Companies and individuals spend millions on training and coaching to up-skill their conversational skills.
But what if there are simple things we can do to uplift the quality of interactions?
How about three questions?
Doesn't that sound like something that's doable?
Because it is!
Good conversations not only uplift interactions but have other benefits too:
So, the next time you are in a discussion or want to have a meaningful conversation with someone use these three questions to build a better quality of interaction:
Simple. Effective. Inclusive.
The idea is to invite the others to spend as much time as possible talking about what they are truly thinking about. This way, not only will you gain good information but also understand the underlying feelings and concerns.
Imagine how effective you can be under those circumstances... I see ALL your relationships flourish!
Tell me about how this works out for you and as always,
Written With Love
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Deliberate creators know that there can be a gap between what you ask for and when it shows up in your experience. The big tickets items or something that is closest to our hearts are generally the ones where we see this the most.
Having a gap or a lag time between asking and receiving is a good thing. Can you imagine if every single thing we wished for came true!
Sometimes we think we want something but it's a good thing we have time to refine and consider our choice of manifestations.
But while we wait, it sometimes can be quiet annoying. The most common thought, 'Why hasn't it shown up yet?!' can start to play up.
We know that giving into that annoyance or irritability will further increase that time lag. So as masters of our own destinies, we must continue to stay positive and live a joyful life as the universe does what it does best.
Here are 7 things you can practice when you find yourself moving away from happiness and towards annoyance
This is by no means an exhaustive list.
Bottom line, do what makes you feels better and keeps you joyful. Consciously bring yourself to the present moment and live the now!
We tend to be pretty good are visualizing and creating intentions for what we want. And then we wait. We wait for it to show up as if to say a big ball is going to hit your head and announce, 'Hey! What you asked for is here!'
That's NOT how that works.
We unknowingly might be hindering our own progress and creating blocks for the good stuff to flow in.
So I sat down to introspect how some of my actions might be blocking love, abundance, and acceptance to flow in. Here's a list based on my experience of that misalignment.
If you want a particular thing in your life, you have to start being and living it. Right now.
Actions lead to feelings, that lead to quality of thoughts, that further lead to instructions to the universe to send more of it.
So if you work on the quality of your thoughts but are on repeat actions that lead to different instructions, you are going to go in circles and wonder why things aren't changing!
Are your actions aligned to your intentions?
Here's to your success and a fullfing introspection to that question. If you'd like, I'd love hear what you discover or how you changed your actions and allowed the good things to flow in!
As always, Written with Love
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