A Self TAG is a characteristic or quality that you believe is true about yourself and as a result use it often in your conversations.

• I am FAT
• I am a ROMANTIC
• I have TERRIBLE genes
• I DON'T have a business sense
• I am BAD with MONEY
• I have a BEAUTIFUL smile
• I am GOOD at diplomacy 

The list can go on. As you read that list, you obviously know the point I am trying to make!

Self Tags may or may not true to begin with. However, repeated use of these Tags will cause you to see evidence of it, that's how Deliberate Creation works! 

Pretty soon you become the TAG that YOU have set for yourself. The truth is that we don't realize that we have brought it into our reality and then we say, " See! I told you! This is me! I can't help it."

I remember earlier when my now husband used to compliment me on how good I looked, my immediate response would be; " Are you nuts?! I have flabby thighs and I don't have a flat stomach. And I don't have upper body strength" 

For a long time, that's what I believed and that's what I saw when I looked in the mirror. And the more I looked for it, the more I saw and started to become ALL that - flabby thighs, round stomach and no upper body strength! 

When I accepted and changed my Self TAG to ' I am beautiful, strong and prefect', I started to focus on things I could do. My focus - I work out 5 times a week, 30 SETS of Suryanamaskars before the 30 min workout, I take personal training... I am in better shape then I have ever being! And I can do 10 push ups! 

We need to remember that we are prefect and unique. All the skills, abilities  characteristics that you have are meant to be. YOU ARE NOT LACKING IN ANYTHING.

What are some of the TAGS you use for yourself? Ask yourself are they self serving? Are they positive? Do they make you happy?

Keep TAGS, yes, keep POSITIVE ones. When you look at others, look for good things that you both share. 

Leave a Self Tag you use BELOW or on FACEBOOK, maybe yours is something we all can use. 

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 That's the question this post is trying to figure out...

Last week, I was at friends house for a dinner party. It was good to catch up with my closet friend and it was nice to meet some new faces. It was all going well until a few people asked me what I did and how it was going.

My response to how it was going - great, I love working with clients, I am getting a lot of inquires and people are hiring me. 

This wasn't far from the truth - the detail that I didn't repeat how last month I felt a little out of funk and how I would have liked to have seen more clients than I did. 

For me, I had dealt with that feeling and I did not want to repeat statements that did not serve my feelings. I didn't want to start a pity party, especially because I was feeling secure and happy. 

Hearing my response, a close friend, who knew how I felt  last  month, asked me why I would lie about my practice going well, when clearly I had told her that I could do with more clients.

At that moment I felt very hurt, obviously because it came from a source so close to me but it also forced me to think.

Visualizing and imagining what you desire, feeling now what you would feel then, acting as if you are already living it - are techniques that Deliberate Creators use regularly. It helps us to find a better feeling thought and move closer to the vortex.

These questions come to mind:

> Are Deliberate Creators fake?
> Are we lying when we act as if?
> Is that considered in-sincere? 

As for me, I am at ease because I know that I do not seek platforms to paint a picture of what I have, I do not share this information to gain brownie points and I certainly don't have any malicious intent when I act as if. 
 
What are you thoughts about this process? Is there a difference between the techniques that we use and lying? 

Leave a comment here or on the facebook page. 

The month of October, I'll be focusing on the topic of Self Love. 

Answer this - On the Self Worth / Love scale of 1-10, where would you rate yourself?

As a Delibrate Creator and reading many books on the Law Of Attraction, I know that in need to stay in the vortex to manifest my desires and goals. And I know that how I feel at any given momement or about a topic is a good indicator 
whether I am in or out of the vortex. This is a simple enough explaination for me to follow.

I realised that the way I feel is dictated by what I think of myself. My Self Esteem. 

Self Esteem is a term used to reflect a person's evaluation of thier own worth. 

This seemed to me a bit daunting because the answer to that is not black  or white for me. I confess that I waver in my answers.For a long time I stood at a middle ground between high self esteem and having a low one.

My family and friends from the boarding school, of course, had a huge impact on me. Like most of us, I was bought up to believe certain seterotypes - women need to be understanding and get used to sacrifice,they need to be married and have kids, there are limits to the dreams we dream, the family had limited funds, compared to others I am short,stout and dark which is not the ideal.

I grew up with so many limiting beliefs that did not serve me well. To name a few - I was always concious of my looks,I always needed to please others, I felt money was scarce, I lived with a very skwed body image and I was always overly critical of myself, my skills and talents.

It took most of my twenties to figure out that none of these are true.I didnt have to live a limited existence and that there are more ways than one to be successful in life. 

This is not a sad story by any means and I am fully aware of more serious hardships that kids go through.But beliefs have have a huge impact on children and shape them in to adults and thats why this topic is very important to me. 

This month at Everydayloamagic, we are dedicating to Self Love. Ask yourself these questions:

1) How much of yourself do you love? What according to you would you change?
2) What statements to do you use for yourself when you succeed and when you fall short?
3) When you look in the mirror, what do you see? How do you feel about it?
4) Do you believe that you deserve a great life? Do you consider yourself worthy?

Be honest in your response. The answers to these questions might take you by surprise, it might help you identify areas which you need to be concious. 

YOU ARE WHAT YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE.

Changing your limiting beliefs and loving everything about you and your environment is the journey back into the vortex.Change your self talk as well as your focus.

What are you going to think different? I would love to know your experience in dealing with Limiting Beliefs.

Cheers to us, the prefect creation of a limitless and loving Universe!