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5 Life Changing Thoughts

20/11/2011

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The greatest revolution in our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the other aspects of their live.

Around the world more and more individuals are looking to lead a more holistic life. They are wanting to make that change.

The FIVE points listed below can be Life Changing if given a chance.

1. GRATITUDE :
To change your life fast, use gratitude to shift your energy. When you put all of your energy into gratitude, you will see miracles take place in your life. To change things quickly, commit to writing 100 things you are grateful for each day, until you see the change. And FEEL the gratitude. Your power is in the FEELING that you put into the words of gratitude.

2. Be quiet and LISTEN:
The Universe is guiding you and communicating with you in every second of your life. It is responding to your thoughts and it is giving you invaluable feedback through your feelings. Your feelings are cosmic communication! The good feelings mean, GOOD FOR YOU! The bad feelings are to get attraction so that you will change what you are focusing on. Tune in to the cosmic communication that is with you every day. You are never alone, not for a second. The Universe is right with you at every step. Guiding you. But you have to listen!

3. SELF WORTH :
You are unique and magnificent human beings. Of all the billions of people in the planet, there is not another you and your very existence is vital to the functioning of our Universe, because you are one part of the whole Universe. All that you see, and all that there is could not exist without you! Your life is a reflection of what you hold inside you and what you hold inside you is always under your control.

4. ASK and Allow:
Beginning to ask questions about life is a sign you are having a major break through. The Truth of Life is a right for everybody, as it has always been, but only the ones who ask questions receive the answers and discover the truth. When we ask questions, deeply wanting to know the answers, we will attract the answers in a form that we can understand. To receive answers in life, you must begin to ask.

5. LOVE:
Love is the highest power we possess to be in complete harmony with the Law of Attraction, the more love we feel, the greater our power. The more selfless love we feel, the more unfathomable our power. The Law of Attraction has been called the Law of Love, because the law itself is a gift of love to humanity. It is the law by which we can create incredible lives for ourselves. The more love we feel, the greater our power to create a magnificent life of love, joy, and harmony.


Law of Attraction is not just a random idea dealing with 'positive thinking or affirmations. Its a great mix of philosophy, quantum physics and spirituality.

‎"Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Same world." - Wayne Dyer

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Importance of Personal Boundaries - 4 tips to get you started!

13/11/2011

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I think of Personal Boundaries as invisible lines around me. Personal boundaries are Physical, Emotional and Mental limits that you set for others. 

How to spot Unhealthy boundaries - Ask yourselves these questions :

- Do you go against your core values to please others?
- Do you stay silent when treated poorly?
- Do you find that people around you regularly give you inputs which don't make you feel so good?
- Do you lower or change your expectations just to make the other person 'stay' with you?
- In your relationships, do you find yourself feeling manipulated, taken for granted or violated?

If the answers to these questions is Yes for the most part, there is good chance that you have either lowered your personal boundaries or have not communicated them to the person in question.

In my line of work, I come across a lot of people who don't even realize that this is happening to them. They are trying to manifest abundance, better relationships, better work situations but are allowing others to dictate how they feel or what they do.

Personal boundaries allow us to be the Unique Individuals that we are. They allow us to know our thoughts and feelings from the thoughts and feelings of others.Setting boundaries allows for Self Love, taking responsibility for who you are and most importantly - taking control of your life.

Here are 4 simple ways to Set Personal Boundaries: 
  1. Commit to your well being : Take responsibility for how you allow others to treat you. Commit to what is permitted and what is not when dealing with other. Be clear about what you will tolerate. 
  2. Choose your feelings over others : If you were brought up with the traditional thought that your feelings and needs are secondary to others, know that this is not true. When you do this constantly, you will be worn out mentality and physically. Only when you are full of love, can you give love and compassion to others. Remember this the next time you put others needs over yours. 
  3. Communicate your needs : Inform others about your boundaries, especially when they cross them. Ask for what you need from them, this will put them in the best position to provide it to you. Reward people who respect your boundaries and remove yourself from situations that don't.
  4. Trust your feelings : Only you can tell what you need. Trust your feelings to guide you. You are the supreme authority on what you want, need and value. Respect and love yourself. 

At first you might find it hard to see your true worth or to communicate your boundaries to others. Nourishing yourself first will allow for Love and Compassion to grow within you. Only when you have this inside you can you provide that to someone else. 

Boundaries are not aggressive but respect all parties involved. As you stand up for yourself you will be surprised on how the world starts to treat you. You will begin to manifest prosperity in all areas of your life. 

Having and respecting your boundaries is a powerful tool to feeling empowered.


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Get what you want - 4 easy Tips for making Decisions

1/11/2011

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We have all faced situations where we had to choose and felt the pressure of making the right decision. Most of us weigh out the pros and cons and then take the best possible route, for those set circumstances. All this, so that we get what we want. 

And in-spite of our best efforts we end up double guessing our decisions. Did I do the right thing? Should I have taken the other route? We get stuck with the 'What If?' syndrome. 

Here's an emotional story from a client, who has allowed me to share his experience in discovering the easiest way to make a decision. And since this experience, he has never made a decision any other way...

A few years ago ,my client was doing a job he did not like and wanted out. He had wanted out for sometime now and was frantically looking for another opportunity. After a few months of waiting and interviewing, he got an offer which he liked, it was closer to home, different pay grade... etc.

The problem -  if he left his current company now he would lose out on the yearly incentive and bonus, which were due within 6 weeks. Should he stay the 6 weeks and collect the bonus but stay in the frustrated mind set? Or should he leave immediately and take some time for himself? The new company had no problem waiting on a 6 week start date.


Most of the advice he got was to stick it out, take the incentive that he had work so hard for all year round. But somehow, he didn't FEEL RIGHT inside. All he wanted to do was remove himself from the situation that was causing him so much pain. 

To the amazement of his colleagues and against his own logical reasoning, he quit. He took a 3 week vacation to Europe with his mother. It was a good time all around!

A few weeks after the vacation his mother passed away.

He says its the best decision he has taken and all because he followed what FELT RIGHT. He is so grateful to have had those 3 weeks with her and those are the memories that he recalls every time he thinks of his mother. 


I get emotional every time I talk about his experience. Our choices dictate our actions, which in turn shape our experiences and how we live our life, what memories we make. So it is important that we choose wisely.

Here are 4 helpful tips to help make decisions easy and to help manifest abundance in your life:

  1. Make the EASY decision - Life is NOT supposed to be tough.
  2. Go with what FEELS right - If it feels like going downstream with NO resistance, that's where you should be headed.
  3. Go where the GOOD TIME is - does that choice sound like FUN?
  4. Discard the LOGIC CRUTCH - Logic is overrated! And its full of other's opinions. 
 
So follow these tips the next time you are faced with making a decision and see the abundance follow in. Like most things we have lost touch with, this might take some practice and some getting used to. But this is the easiest way to lead a life that you want!

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