Deliberate Creators fakers and lairs?

11/10/2011

That's the question this post is trying to figure out...

Last week, I was at friends house for a dinner party. It was good to catch up with my closet friend and it was nice to meet some new faces. It was all going well until a few people asked me what I did and how it was going.

My response to how it was going - great, I love working with clients, I am getting a lot of inquires and people are hiring me.

This wasn't far from the truth - the detail that I didn't repeat how last month I felt a little out of funk and how I would have liked to have seen more clients than I did.

For me, I had dealt with that feeling and I did not want to repeat statements that did not serve my feelings. I didn't want to start a pity party, especially because I was feeling secure and happy.

Hearing my response, a close friend, who knew how I felt last month, asked me why I would lie about my practice going well, when clearly I had told her that I could do with more clients.

At that moment I felt very hurt, obviously because it came from a source so close to me but it also forced me to think.

Visualizing and imagining what you desire, feeling now what you would feel then, acting as if you are already living it - are techniques that Deliberate Creators use regularly. It helps us to find a better feeling thought and move closer to the vortex.

These questions come to mind:

> Are Deliberate Creators fake?
> Are we lying when we act as if?
> Is that considered in-sincere?

As for me, I am at ease because I know that I do not seek platforms to paint a picture of what I have, I do not share this information to gain brownie points and I certainly don't have any malicious intent when I act as if.

What are you thoughts about this process? Is there a difference between the techniques that we use and lying?

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13 Comments

Rohit

10/10/2011 07:48:35 pm

I feel generally things said in confidence should be kept that way. I think we should be careful about who we confide in cos sometmimes we can be left hanging on the blushes. I can only hope that your friend said it unintentionally or perhaps was trying to be funny about it.

The reality that you would like to create, be it sincere or delibrate, is to be considered fair. Most of us do include our worries as part of the projected image of the future. The point is work your problems, but have an image of an problem free future.. After all it should be Mind Over Matter.

Janette link

10/10/2011 10:08:27 pm

Oh, I don't think choosing your focus is anything like lying!

First of all, there is nothing impossible about saying your practice is going well, and wanting more clients. Those things aren't mutually exclusive! ;-)

Secondly, you may have felt bad about that second part a month ago, but you can change that feeling if you want to, so it's not necessarily "real" right now.

But for me, the most important thing to understand is that deliberate creators are bringing their desires into reality. Once we desire a thing (event, feeling, etc), it immediately comes into existence from a vibrational perspective - what Abraham-Hicks calls our "vibrational escrow". It exists in a vibrational reality already - we simply haven't yet caught up with it in this physical reality.

So when we say "I'm a brilliant coach in high demand" we're not lying - we're expressing a truth that is in the process of becoming. At least... that's what I think! :-)

Nikky

11/10/2011 12:20:47 am

Hey Ruby,
I believe Deliberate Creators are at their best when they make belief or imagine as if its real ( lying as most people would call it).
If it suits these folks to term it lying, I would be ok with it, thats there calling and there is no point pushing against it.
Yes what I usually do after learning over time is to generalise my answers. So as to avoid questions about the details which in turn could affect my vibe negatively.
And about lying ...... who is to say thats bad either whether we do it with the intention of deliberately creating or any other reason.....If it feels good lying is good....if it feels bad ( guilt, fear etc) then its not good. And I am sure once your close friend understands what you are creating and your vibrational essence then she will not term it as lying !!!
Take care
Nikky

Ruby

11/10/2011 01:23:21 am

I agree, Rohit that it is mind over matter and more so if the process helps you to problem solve then more power to us!

11/10/2011 01:26:17 am

Janette, love your thought 'we're expressing a truth that is in the process of becoming.'

I agree, I am all those desire, you just cant see it yet!

11/10/2011 01:45:34 am

Nikky, yes you are on point, people who are not familiar with the process might view it so differently.

I think because people close to you can push your buttons more easily, we should learn to let go their inputs that don't serve us.

The good thing about close friends is that they speak their mind but support you nevertheless.

Ryan Biddulph link

13/10/2011 03:49:43 am

Hi,

Moving your focus to feel more wealthy, or abundant, is definitely keeping it real ;)

Faking would mean doing something that makes you feel like you're faking, and this feeling of dishonesty is repelling.

Focusing on feelings like gratitude, or seeing all you have, makes you feel wealthy.

During leaner times, if someone asked me how business was going, I said "good". Of course, it was good. I was alive - which makes things automatically good - and becoming more free with my business, even if I didn't see tangible results yet. So I said good, felt good, and attracted good.

Thanks for sharing the interesting question!

Ryan

13/10/2011 05:27:57 am

Thanks for sharing Ryan, I completely agree and that's how I know I am on the right path.

As Deliberate Creators we are aware and focused on moving to better feeling thoughts, period. No malice intended.

Divya

14/10/2011 11:56:07 pm

I do not support it- that acting as if is LYING...no for me LYING wud be when we merely go hereaway with our vibes and neglect what can be achieved by ACTING AS IF"... Lying to me is related to hard feelings...whch obviously isnt served by deliberate creators....we create Positivity by it and not Lies i.e. Negativity!! Hats Off to you RUby!! I love you always!!

15/10/2011 01:50:31 am

Thank you Divya, Well said, always an interesting response!

Yes we generate positivity !

Jeannette link

15/10/2011 04:23:09 am

I like Janette's "we're expressing a truth that is in the process of becoming" and Nikky's observation about the negative connotation associated with the word 'lying.'

I've raised my eyebrows before when I've heard deliberate creators tell out and out 'fictions' about the success they've achieved - which says to ME that I'm not comfortable with a big stretch of the "truth" - which may very well be a big manifesting handicap.

I'm more inclined to practice what Nikky wrote about - going more general with the conversation.

I personally would not appreciate learning that my coach doesn't REALLY have all the successes she said she did, when I've hired her to help me do the same.

And yet that is the heart of deliberate creation - to loosen our grip on the truth.

Really interesting discussion you've posed here, Ruby. Thanks, everyone!

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